{"id":12915,"date":"2012-05-17T08:00:51","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T12:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/?p=12915"},"modified":"2012-05-16T13:24:08","modified_gmt":"2012-05-16T17:24:08","slug":"my-birthday-being-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/2012\/05\/my-birthday-being-better\/","title":{"rendered":"My Birthday + Being Better"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>Hola Sweet Shoppers! Lex here, and today is my 34th birthday! I don&#8217;t feel 34. I mean, I would think once I hit my 30s I would feel all wise and stuff, but&#8230;no. I feel more aches and pains than I used to, lol, but no more wise. Today will be a fun, largely food-filled day for me as I&#8217;m lunching with a good friend to have one of my fave desserts (Tiramisu from Cibo, a yummy Italian restaurant) and then later dinner with my family in one of my fave restaurants (lots and lots of Persian\/Mediterranean food&#8211;my choice inspired by that &#8220;shawarm-a&#8221; scene from\u00a0<em>The Avengers<\/em>).\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Some awesome scrappy\/online friends of mine have commented that I don&#8217;t look my age&#8211;and I&#8217;m so tickled that some of them thought I was still 25 or 26! Woot! A couple of years ago when I was in the US I even got carded&#8211;the guy must&#8217;ve been so bewildered with I totally squee&#8217;d like an idiot and asked, &#8220;You REALLY want to see my ID? THANK YOU!&#8221; LOL. I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m Asian or anything. Certainly I have friends who look younger than me but they are&#8211;believe it or not&#8211;in their 40s!\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Anyway, what I wanted to talk about isn&#8217;t about age or birthdays! About a month or so ago I ran across an article from The Daily Digi:\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/thedailydigi.com\/can-scrapbooking-really-make-you-happy\/\" target=\"_blank\">Can Scrapbooking Really Make You Happy?<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0and it really struck a chord in me. I mean, obviously the answer is YES. I would never have gotten so involved in this community, invested so much time and money if I didn&#8217;t even remotely\u00a0<em>like<\/em>\u00a0what scrapbooking is. But the article made me think a little deeper than that, and I came up with a corollary of sorts:\u00a0<strong>Has Scrapbooking Made Me a Better Person?<\/p>\n<p><\/strong><\/div>\n<div>Us scrapbookers, digital or traditional, like to joke about how our hobby\/passion\/craft has taken over our lives: taking whole chunks of our cash, rooms in our homes, or time that could&#8217;ve been spent with our families or sleeping. Yet we DO invest a lot of ourselves in it; we love to do it. It&#8217;s easy to see how happy scrapbooking has made me. As a ripple effect, has that happiness of mine caught on?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>At first it seemed like such a weird question to ask myself as my birthday drew closer, but in a way, I look at it as a way to look back at how I was last year, the year before, or heck, even in the years before I scrapbooked. And I believe YES, it has made me a better person. And of course, I scrapped about it, lol.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12916\" title=\"700_better\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/700_better-400x400.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><em>Using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/sweetshoppe\/product.php?productid=23340&amp;cat=0&amp;page=1\" target=\"_blank\">Believe Me, You Are Beautiful<\/a> by Jenn Barrette; DJB Enjoy the Little Things\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Finding my beliefs about myself and scrapbooking is incredibly empowering for me! Like many of us, I&#8217;m plagued a lot by the feeling of not being enough, and yes, it spills over to this hobby. But thinking about this question put stuff back in perspective for me. I remember that finding this hobby meant finding a little bit of myself. And I&#8217;m so incredibly grateful for it.<\/p>\n<p>I think a beautiful example for how much scrapbooking has made me me is that when my husband Mark gave his birthday gift to me, he said, &#8220;I am so happy you&#8217;ve found something that brings out the artistic side you always had.&#8221;\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Now I want to ask you:\u00a0<strong>Has scrapbooking made you a better person?<\/strong>\u00a0In what way? What do you like about yourself now that wasn&#8217;t apparent before scrapbooking&#8211;or even memory-making? Let me know in the comments!<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hola Sweet Shoppers! Lex here, and today is my 34th birthday! I don&#8217;t feel 34. I mean, I would think once I hit my 30s I would feel all wise and stuff, but&#8230;no. I feel more aches and pains than I used to, lol, but no more wise. 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