{"id":7686,"date":"2011-08-17T09:13:31","date_gmt":"2011-08-17T13:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/?p=7686"},"modified":"2011-12-15T00:15:52","modified_gmt":"2011-12-15T05:15:52","slug":"365-days-of-bliss-a-summer-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/2011\/08\/365-days-of-bliss-a-summer-success\/","title":{"rendered":"365 Days of Bliss: A Summer Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey everyone! It&#8217;s Keely here this morning.\u00a0 On Tuesday the kids will be back in school and the fun, carefree days of summer break will be over. I&#8217;ve been feeling like this summer has been a wash, no family vacation, few events, even our usual daily pool trips were far fewer than usual.\u00a0 The list of things I&#8217;d wanted to do and accomplish is almost as long as it was when I started it. I&#8217;m blaming\u00a0 the heat,\u00a0 63 days of triple digit temperatures so far, my brain is fried, I&#8217;ve had little motivation.\u00a0 As I was mulling over my failures I realized I did have one small success. That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m going to tell you about this morning.<\/p>\n<p>I am the mother of a thirteen year old girl. Need I say more? She&#8217;s actually a pretty great kid, but also great at confounding me. I&#8217;ve been an avid reader from before my school days. As a parent, it&#8217;s always been high on my priority list to expose my kids to books and reading. This particular child loved books as a little kid, unfortunately after several years of school, reading lost it&#8217;s charm. So it&#8217;s been an ongoing thing. I make her her read and hope she&#8217;ll find a little of the magic that I&#8217;ve found through books. I know her, I&#8217;ve been recommending book after book for years to no avail. She&#8217;ll enjoy a book once she&#8217;s reading it, middle school has introduced to her to several books she enjoyed. It&#8217;s the starting and picking it up on her own that doesn&#8217;t happen, or reading a minute over the required time.\u00a0 When she was in about 4th grade I&#8217;d suggested the <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Complete-Little-House-Nine-Book-Set\/dp\/0064400409\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586137&amp;sr=1-1\">Little House On The Prairie<\/a><\/em> series, repeatedly, but it wasn&#8217;t until her grandmother&#8217;s hair dresser recommended them that she decided to give them a go. Guess what? She loved them. I thought I had won her over a little bit at that point but I was wrong. And this has been how it goes, I recommend, she ignores me. I nag her, she reads. Not exactly how I&#8217;d like it to play out.<\/p>\n<p>This spring I wore her down some, I got her to read<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Kill-Mockingbird-slipcased-Harper-Lee\/dp\/0061205699\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586189&amp;sr=1-1\"><em> To Kill a Mockingbird<\/em><\/a>.\u00a0 Did she love it? Yes. Did it speak to her? Yes. She even offered to read another of my suggestions. So she began <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Little-Women-Norton-Critical-Editions\/dp\/0393976149\/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586248&amp;sr=1-5\">Little Women<\/a><\/em>. When she kept asking for spoilers (I&#8217;m well known to be anti-spoiler) I knew she was crossing over. After <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Little-Women-Norton-Critical-Editions\/dp\/0393976149\/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586248&amp;sr=1-5\"><em>Little Women<\/em><\/a>, she picked something else. I&#8217;m not saying she&#8217;s been buried in books, but she&#8217;s always got something going. I&#8217;ve found her reading on her own, and often times when I ask if she&#8217;s read the answer is, &#8220;Yep&#8221;.\u00a0 After the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Kill-Mockingbird-slipcased-Harper-Lee\/dp\/0061205699\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586314&amp;sr=1-1\"> <em>To Kill A Mockingbird<\/em><\/a> episode, I&#8217;d introduced her to a few <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Edgar-Allen-Poe-Complete-Poems\/dp\/1449535542\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586375&amp;sr=1-1\">Edgar Allen Poe<\/a> poems. She decided she wanted to read something scary this summer. I gave her <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Shining-Roman-Stephen-King\/dp\/3404130081\/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586404&amp;sr=1-5\">The Shining<\/a><\/em> for her birthday. She stayed up late reading it, she got scared, and hooked on this one too. When <em>redrum<\/em> finally made sense to her, she literally ran out of her bedroom and jumped up and down to tell us. It made my week! She&#8217;s a freak for pie, it&#8217;s her signature dish too, so I gave her <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Thinner-Signet-Stephen-King\/dp\/0451161343\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1313586453&amp;sr=1-1\">Thinner<\/a><\/em> to read after that. And so it goes.<\/p>\n<p>The summer wasn&#8217;t a complete wash after all, at least for me. I&#8217;m aware that you can&#8217;t force your kids to like what you like, I married a guy that doesn&#8217;t like to read, so I know those people aren&#8217;t all bad (kidding!). But I&#8217;ve always hoped that my kids would share my love of reading. After this summer I feel like there&#8217;s a much better chance of that happening.<\/p>\n<p>So if you&#8217;re in a similar situation, &#8220;Never Give Up, Never Surrender!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/blinkies\/ssdblinkie_babe_keely.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"50\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey everyone! It&#8217;s Keely here this morning.\u00a0 On Tuesday the kids will be back in school and the fun, carefree days of summer break will be over. I&#8217;ve been feeling like this summer has been a wash, no family vacation, few events, even our usual daily pool trips were far fewer than usual.\u00a0 The list [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":94,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[129],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7686"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/94"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7686"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7686\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9890,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7686\/revisions\/9890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7686"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7686"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sweetshoppedesigns.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7686"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}